Is there an observor in you, who just observes; observes how you are talking, thinking, feeling etc. Observes how are you sitting alone and going over past events but feeling pain linked with that in present. How you have assigned various roles to all the relations of yours, whose sole task is to confirm the image you have about yourself. Does that observor also see that you have even given a role to this observor who than has become a part of the game who only observes the things which suits your image; And never questions the rules of the game. As if everyone (including you and that observor in you) has been sucked in by the power of the game. Is there an observor in you (despite being sucked in) can just about manage to observe even this!!